why?

So sick of people making "jokes" which hurt people's feelings and then not only not have the decency to realize that perhaps they took something too far, but they go and make fun of you for being too sensitive or "get a sense of humour".

Then they accuse you of being too defensive. Yeah, well, I've learned to tread carefully. All those "jokes" over the years have made of wary of whether there are traces of malice in your comments. Do they even care about my feelings? I don't think so.

I get it, some things may be funny to you but not to me. I may seem like I take things too seriously, but who doesn't when it's something they care bout? And notice one thing, you have things that you are sensitive about too, but make note that I never intentionally rip into you about it. Cuz 1) You'd deny it and somehow make me feel bad and 2) I don't think you'll find in your heart to realize that perhaps there's truth in what was said and find forgiveness. I'd rather bite my tongue than to know someone's angry with me. And when I do rip into people, it's usually accidental and you can be sure that I'll be angry with myself for it for a while.

Fuck. People just amaze me.