Wednesday, September 07, 2005

2pm, everday.

2 pm is headache time at my place of employment.

I'm usually in a pretty good mood in the morning. I hold back my grimace when you accidentally slam a heavy bag against my car, I answer inane questions with a smile and pretend that it hasn't been asked four times, I am even more than happy to solve whatever computer glitch you throw my way. But keep this up for a few hours, in addition to the sickening sounds of jaw and neck cracking (augh, it's so disgusting!) I start getting a little agitated.

Then comes lunch. I think to myself, "ah, sweet relief, I'll just drive away and chill by myself for an hour.".. but alas I hear, "oh oh, I'll come with you! I just brought an apple for lunch." Instead of collasping in a heap and weeping, I put on a smile and ask, "sounds good, where do you want to go?"

I understand that perhaps she thinks I'll be lonely by myself and that she's going with me to keep me company. But how do I let her know that I want to go by myself?

If i'm lucky, there'll be work to do in another room after lunch and I can have a few hours of peace and quiet. Come on, ppl, hand over your lucky charms.

Today, I point blank asked, "Do you know that this is the 5th time you've repeated this? Because really, I completely understood what you were saying/asking, no need to explain more."

Was that rude? I don't really care. I'm a co-worker. Not a friend, not your supervisor. Yes, I provided the training but get it through your head, my first year too!! Take your questions, shove them in a box and sit on them until someone more senior comes in. In the mean time, leave me alone, I have work to do, too, you know.

man, that felt good.

time for: dinner!!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

haha.. yah.. that was rude!!! but then it depends on whether she got it or not.. if she's completely clueless.. then it wouldn't matter and she'll continue to talk your ear off... hahaha.. what was her reaction?

say you're meeting a friend for lunch next time, or run out as soon as it's lunch time, or tell her you have to go home and drive your mom somewhere... blah blah blah...

Anonymous said...

That's right, the people at work are your co-workers...not friends. You need to learn to say 'no'. Lunch time? "Oh I can't. I have to run some errands." It's your car, it's your lunch time, you don't owe her any explanations. Get bombarded by repeated questions? "I need to finish up something right now, I will help you out in a bit."

As for your comment..it really depends on how you said it. Was it blunt? Yes. Rude? Maybe. Deserved? Maybe. Perhpas you didn't have to mention the '5th time'.

O...live and learn.